The Conversation Project

We always talk about the fact that having ‘The Conversation‘ is an important, but often a difficult and emotionally challenging task. We wanted to tell you about a excellent resource available on-line: The Conversation Project, spearheaded by national columnist Ellen Goodman.

The Conversation Project isn’t about filling out Advance Directives or other medical forms. It’s about talking to your loved ones about what you or they want for end-of-life care. Explore their virtual kitchen table, with videos or step-by-step PDF files.  The holidays are often a good time for these conversations, as we spend time with loved ones.

The Conversation Project offers a Starter Kit that will help you or your organization to get your thoughts together and then have the conversation.

  • Download the (writable PDF) 12 page TCP Starter Kit
  • Chinese, Korean, Spanish and Vietnamese version of the Starter Kit is available on the Conversation Project’s website. (Please scroll all the way down to the Starter Kit Translations fold out menu and download the PDF file.)

Practice Makes Perfect – Video

We know that starting conversations about end-of-life care wishes with your loved ones can be hard – the video from The Conversation Project is here to help (and hopefully make you smile as well).  Practice Makes Perfect – Video on The Conversation webpage.

The Conversation Project – Getting Started Guide for Congregations

The Conversation Project is pleased to announce a new, free Getting Started Guide for Congregations is now available on line (click on the image of the report to download the PDF file)

The ideas and examples in this guide emerged from the years of work they have done with clergy and lay leaders across the country who have tested ways to bring advance care planning and crucial Conversations into your congregations.

The Conversation Project – How to Talk to Your Doctor

The Conversation Project has updated How to Talk to Your Doctor, a guide to discussing end-of-life care with doctors, nurses, or other health care providers. The guide addresses basic steps that span the entire process (“Get Ready,” “Get Set,” “Go,” and “Keep Going”). It can be used as a workbook to make notes with a health care team. You can download the 12-page PDF file here.

The Conversation Project: NEW Alzheimer’s Resources

Families caring for loved ones with cognitive impairments face special challenges when it comes to managing their end-of-life care. Often caregivers of patients with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia are left to make critical decisions on their own, as the afflicted are no longer able to speak for themselves.

The new Starter Kit created specifically to address the issues associated with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia is the first of its kind and is now available free for download as a PDF on the The Conversation Project’s website.

  • For local resources you may also check out Hawaii Alzheimer’s Disease Initiative (HADI), at the Center on Aging, University of Hawaii at Mānoa.

Story Telling and Recording: An Interactive Webinar with StoryCorps

The Conversation Project teamed up with StoryCorps in an interactive webinar to take the fear out of recording stories with loved ones.  All you need is a smart phone and e few easy stps for a guided conversation. The recording of the webinar and PDF resource files are available at the “Community Resource Center” on their website. Scroll down and click on the the StoryCorps App for the recording and the PDF files.


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